Type Seven Overview:
People of Enneatype Seven are upbeat adventurers motivated by a desire to have unfettered freedom with plenty of exciting new options and experiences to explore. They are playful and optimistic, often entertaining the people around them with engaging or funny stories.
Sevens are quick thinkers, constantly coming up with new ideas or plans for the future. They have a great deal of energy and usually have many plates spinning at once. They tend to be multi-talented creative people who do their best to enjoy life at its fullest.
Sevens have a desire to avoid painful emotions, and to them, it seems that the easiest way to accomplish this is to stay busy! As such, they stay preoccupied with novelty and excitement which leads to over-extension in too many commitments. This can result in feeling scattered, distracted or exhausted, and they can struggle to stay focused and finish important projects.
At Their Best:
Optimistic, enthusiastic, imaginative, curious, quick-thinking, and often multitalented.
Self-indulgent, insensitive, hyperactive, undisciplined, impatient, and uncommitted.
What Type Sevens say about themselves:
- Life is an adventure!
- I seek pleasure and have an insatiable appetite for new experiences.
- I am optimistic, active and energetic.
- I see multiple options, but have difficulty with commitment.
- I do not like limits and avoid boredom.
We each feel that we must show up in a certain way in the world in order to deserve love.
These are internal messages that resonate with Sevens:
BASIC FEAR: Of being deprived and in pain.
BASIC DESIRE: To be satisfied and content—to have their needs fulfilled.
BASIC PROPOSITION: “You can avoid pain and frustration by inventing options, opportunities and adventures.”
AVOIDANCE: Pain, suffering, boredom, and limitations.
FOCUS of ATTENTION: Multiple options and idealized future plans, pleasant options.
- Positive aspect: The ability to find humor, positivity and exciting options in their everyday life.
- Negative aspect: The tendency to neglect and run away from pain or burdensome responsibilities.
Strategies For Growth:
- Observe your habit of mind with as little judgment as possible. Ask yourself, how am I distracted by new and exciting ideas and activities? Remind yourself to choose quality over quantity, especially in your experiences. The ability to have experiences of quality can be learned only by giving your full attention to the experience you are having now.
- Practice listening to other people. They are often more interesting than you might initially think, and many of them want a deep meaningful connection with you. If you slow down your pace and spend more time listening, you will find that relationships improve.